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Although many of us carry some form of emotional trauma in our bodies, and therefore in our energy fields, do we ever really stop to question the impact that it is having on our overall health? If you are like most individuals you probably just want to forget its even there. The thought of revisiting it probably just makes you feel sick.
The more corageous among you do try to do something about it, perhaps undergo some form of psychotherapy to try to diminsh its impact on your life. I say courageous because in trying to address it one is often confronted by various levels of internal discomfort or fear that do their best to try to derail your best efforts.
Others still try to go on functioning under the cover of some form of anaesthetic i.e. drugs, alcohol, food, sex or some other form of addiction. This is about trying to numb the pain as best as one can.
In the end however, whichever path you choose you are still left with the sad awareness that whatever the trauma was, it happened to you and there is really nothing you can do about it. You will carry that fact within your cells for the rest of your life.
What impact does this have on you and your overall health? Well just for a moment reflect on the fact that the memory of the trauma and the fact that it happened to you remain inside you and notice how it makes you feel.
Even if you've had some form of psychotherapy I think there is likely still some sadness connected with the fact that you really can't change the fact that it happened and that it happened to you!
What does this do to your over all energy level? Well if you notice closely I think you will recognize that the apparently inescapable fact that this event, what ever it is, is part of your life history, only serves to drain your overall energy level.
Now what does this energy represent? Well it represents your "Life Energy". So what am I saying here? Well I'm saying that by the "fact" that the memory of that trauma is still inside you, it is draining your life energy from your body and another way of saying that is that it is killing you!
Now I'm sure that you've likely experienced more than just one traumatic event in your life, perhaps many. So I'm sure you are beginning to see how all of these memories compound the negative effect they have on your life.
Now what if you could change the "fact" that they "happened" to you? I know you're probabaly thinking "he's lost his mind" but I ask you to have an open mind just for a moment.
In my work over the last 8 years helping individuals with trauma using a new and powerful tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) I have been able to help individuals clear their trauma from their energy fields and therefore from their consciousness and their bodies permanently. They are left with the feeling that such events actually "did not happen" to them.
I do need to qualify here that this is not a process of denying to oneself that the events happened. It is something altogether different and which can only be experienced to be truly appreciated.
These individuals have without exception each re-experienced a resurgence of vital life enrgy into their bodies in a way that they had never experienced before. They were filled with a tremendous sense of relief, an inner sense of joy and peace, a greater feeling of inner strength and resilience which protected them from further trauamtic experiences.
Oh yes, after the release of the trauma none of them felt like the event had ever happened to them.
So if you'd like to know more feel free to visit one of the web links below in my bio.
Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is an Energy Psychiatrist, Healer, Key Note Speaker,Editor of a New Ezine Called "Spirituality And Science" (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of "Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation" (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Energy Medicine Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.
Business URL #1: http://www.telecoaching4u.com
Personal URL: http://www.telecoaching4u.com/Spir ituality_And_Science.htm



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