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How To Be Happy

Happiness is a state of mind, so your state of mind at this moment makes all the difference.

You need to ask yourself, is it what you want, the thing that is going to make you happy?

If the answer is yes, does this mean that what you have must not be good enough?

We go through life searching, searching for a better job, better house, better car, better relationship, sometimes for many people this is a full time "occupation, always searching!

It seems to be a vicious circle for many of us, because the last job was the better one, now it is not, somehow it's lost its appeal, just as when you bought your car, it was going to make you happy but that was only for a short time, you soon became unhappy once you saw another newer model, so the car that was your dream car is no longer a dream.

Where does it end?

Well the answer is simple, it ends exactly where it starts, in your Mind.

Look back at what you have had or what you did in your life that really made you happy, was it something that was a passing fad or was it more to do with being with certain people, going to a special place, listening to music, being on your own?

Whatever it was, can you have it again? Can you reproduce that feeling?

The answer to your past and future happiness belongs to you, only you can make you happy because only you control your thoughts, other people may have an impact but remember your thoughts are you, so think happy and be happy.

Garry Munro has the Minds Alike web site at http://www.mindsalike.com.au where you can find more articles on success, happiness and self development.

In The News:


Ten Ways To Be Happier Now
Forbes, NY - 21 hours ago
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Science Daily (press release) - 23 hours ago
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The Tech Herald

Hacker used 'happiness' to access Twitter accounts
Los Angeles Times, CA - Jan 7, 2009
Happiness. The hack victim, a Twitter staffer who goes by the name Crystal on the social network, used that nine-letter word as the password for her account ...
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Changing the pursuit of happiness
Georgetown News Graphic, KY - 1 hour ago
And one thing I have learned is I believe what everyone wants is happiness. In fact, that is what the Constitution guarantees, or at least a pursuit of ...

Spreading happiness with breezy jazz
Long Beach Press-Telegram, CA - 11 hours ago
It promotes happiness." Pizzarelli performed with the Long Beach Symphony Pops in the fall of 2007, but this time it will be just himself on guitar and ...

Buses Won't Buy Happiness
City Watch, CA - 6 hours ago
By Charles Tarlow In an article about mass transit (CityWatch: “Want More Riders? Offer a Better Ride”) the author suggests we should selectively increase ...

Letter: You’ve brought happiness to our residents
River Falls Journal, WI - 7 hours ago
Thank you for putting smiles on their faces and happiness in their hearts. You have all made their holiday season a happy one! ...

'Giving Tree' leaves happiness for holidays
Stoughton Journal, MA - 20 hours ago
By Kate Sullivan Foley Two days before Christmas Eve, Immaculate Conception Church in Stoughton looked a bit like Santa’s Workshop at the North Pole. ...

More comes in for Christmas Happiness Fund
Salisbury Post, NC - Jan 8, 2009
The success of the 2008 Christmas Happiness Fund is a testament to the generosity of Rowan County. Thanks so much for the $73360.18 in contributions that ...

Metro

Twitter 'happiness' hack exposed Britney
Metro, UK - Jan 7, 2009
... but then discovered she was a staff member called Crystal with access to all profiles and passwords. Her simple password, Happiness, was easy to crack.
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